This guide to sex, love and life for girls who like girls is useful whether youre a lady-dating veteran or still trying to come out to yourself.

Fresh and authentic[King-Miller] combine[s] the directness of Dan Savage with the compassion and gentleness of Cheryl Strayed.BITCH magazine

Seasoned advice columnist and queer chick Lindsay King Miller cuts through all of the bizarre conditioning imparted by parents, romantic comedies, andThe L Wordto help queer readers live authentic, safe, happy, sexy lives. With advice on every aspect of life as a lesbian, gay, bisexual, or queer womanfrom your first Pride to confronting discrimination in the workplacethere is guidance for some of the most major parts of living in a world that can vacillate between supportive and cruel.

Lindsay King-Miller is the cool, queer aunt you never had but always wantedshe is unrelentingly kind, totally funny, and no subject is off limits.Ask a Queer Chickis essential reading.Jolie Kerr, author ofMy Boyfriend Barfed In My Handbag…And Other Things You Can’t Ask Martha