Whether Samantha Irby is talking about how her difficult childhood has led to a problem in making adult budgets; explaining why she should be the new Bachelorette (she’s “35-ish, but could easily pass for 60-something”); detailing a disastrous pilgrimage-slash-romantic-vacation to Nashville to scatter her estranged father’s ashes; sharing awkward sexual encounters; or dispensing advice on how to navigate friendships with former drinking buddies who are now suburban moms (hang in there for the Costco loot!); shes as deft at poking fun at the ghosts of her past self as she is at capturing powerful emotional truths.